Interesting. I blend because I've been so often the one non-male person in a group of male individuals; it's body language and conversational topic, too. In some ways I've ended up with "and" by force of will: if someone reads me as a woman, well, these are traits and interests and habits women also have; deal.
Some of that is time/place, I think. No one said "nonbinary" when I was a child or young adult, and I don't particularly see myself as NB, either. But I'm not sure how to interpret "being feminine about"--not sure what the phrase means because it has a lot of space, a lot of pockets.
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Date: 2019-12-01 06:32 pm (UTC)Some of that is time/place, I think. No one said "nonbinary" when I was a child or young adult, and I don't particularly see myself as NB, either. But I'm not sure how to interpret "being feminine about"--not sure what the phrase means because it has a lot of space, a lot of pockets.